Whirlwind!
5 days of whirlwind it has been fun and a touch scary.
Worst contact of the week
vidshooter: in what? You don’t even know me!
vidshooter: huh? How utterly stupid ignorant obtuse and inane are you? you know absolutely NOTHING about me…and you say that shit? grow up asshole!
*** vidshooter’s IC window is closed
This is then end of a message exchangeThat consisted of 10 lines previousWhere he informed me of among other things his bisexuallity, and width of his privates.
This hostile message I received after poliety saying no thank you 3 times to this fellow.
I wish I had saved the earlier part of the instant message to share with you.
Notice his id name
And the fact that he introduced himself as big black and BI
Followed by all the sleazy lines and sexual aggressive plot lines that could fill a crummy porno
He contacted me and launched rigfht into the porn talk.
Rob has been polite and friendly and backed away from the length of my legs and all the talk of what a great kisser he is. (The Hungarian)has been polite and friendly and backed away from the length of my legs and all the talk of what a great kisser he is. (The Hungarian)So he is not out of it yet. (He is way too handsome)has been polite and friendly and backed away from the length of my legs and all the talk of what a great kisser he is. (The Hungarian)So he is not out of it yet. (He is way too handsome)
Ian Well Ian sounds fabulous and writes deeply, and is friendly and not overly aggressive… but he
Well Ian looks so much like my ex husband that I sat blinking at the monitor then burst out laughing. If anyone who knew me when married ever saw him they would pack me off to the therapist.
Poor man.
I don’t know if I can get past that one. (Sigh) -We will see.
Len is shy, different looking. Very tall which is a definitely plus to me.is shy, different looking. Very tall which is a definitely plus to me.
- My response: Thanks for responding to my profile. I just looked at yours.
I read that you enjoy camping and fishing, old cars.
I am a pretty normal and honest person.
I like summer outdoor activities; I haven’t fished in many years. I did buy a couple rods and reels last summer but never put them to use. ![]()
As for camping, well I am a cottage gal over a tent.
Old cars - I know nothing about beyond they is powerful and nice to look at.
I do have a distant memory of really wanting a 65 Stingray at one time or a Shelby.
If my lack of outdoor experience, and basic car knowledge were not a complete NO to you I wouldn’t mind chatting with you some time.
Take care,
His emailed me back that he is a very interested in chatting and getting to know me.
We will see.
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- A couple more lude responses here and there.
- The radio DJ –with really bad fake hair,
- A little fellow who is 5 foot 3 inches tall. A very nice person I am sure but I am 5 foot 10 inches in my bare feet. - The stock car racecar driver this one is fun to read JI love a women in a ball cap.And by the way i am a SMOKER..Relationships can start with a hug and a kiss.???? Also i spent most of my friday nights at ******** Speedway.Crew cheif Truck.I - that’s enough I think
- Now why would he contact me?There is nothing about me that scream PIT CREW.
Well that brings us to Jake
Well that brings us toI like Jake.
He really likes me and can’t figure out why I am talking with him. He flatters me and is sweet and a bit shy, but there is a sharp wit and sense of humor to him. He ask’s if he can call me and always does when he said he would (smile) which is every day. He didn’t ask me out, he asked if I would be interested in meeting in person, and then asked me when I wanted to. He let me set the boundaries. How cool is that????
He said he adores my giggle, that he thinks about it at points in the day and it makes him smile.
Last night he said something that struck me funny and I started laughing, he was so thrilled at making me laugh like that.
When I wasn’t home Saturday afternoon for a phone call when I said I would be he left a message that was a bit sad.
And then he thought about it and told me why and was very sincere and smart.
I caught myself thinking about him during the day today at the office.
We are going to meet this weekend. I have held off meeting him until then. (did I say I like him?)
He is very cute and has one cheezie looking picture posted. I haven’t mentioned it yet but it makes me laugh. It a GQ kind of shot meant to look natural, but it doesn’t. LOL I think it is so funny. Did I mention he is super cute. I have never been attracted to a super hotty before.
I have three general rules about men.
They can’t be able to wear my jeans.
They can’t have better hair than me.
And no super handsome men.
He better not be able to fit in my jeans… A gal has to stick to some rules.
That’s it for now. I am expecting a call shortly. I will keep you posted.
I love a women in a ball cap.And by the way i am a SMOKER..Relationships can start with a hug and a kiss.???? Also i spent most of my friday nights at ******** Speedway.Crew cheif Truck.I - Now why would he contact me?There is nothing about me that scream PIT CREW.I love a women in a ball cap.And by the way i am a SMOKER..Relationships can start with a hug and a kiss.???? Also i spent most of my friday nights at ******** Speedway.Crew cheif Truck.I - Now why would he contact me?
I love a women in a ball cap.And by the way i am a SMOKER..Relationships can start with a hug and a kiss.???? Also i spent most of my friday nights at ******** Speedway.Crew cheif Truck.I - Now why would he contact me?There is nothing about me that scream PIT CREW.I love a women in a ball cap.And by the way i am a SMOKER..Relationships can start with a hug and a kiss.???? Also i spent most of my friday nights at ******** Speedway.Crew cheif Truck.I - Now why would he contact me?
Starting out online
I signed up with an online dating site.This was an education in itself.
It was a 2-page process
- Do you want children?
- You are a (male/female) seeking a (male/female)
- Do you have children?
- Height
- Body type
- Do you smoke?
- Do you drink?
- Do you use drugs?
- Hair color
- Interests
- Religion
- I am looking for _____________________
This one was interesting you could chose from…
- Friends
- Online friends
- Dating
- Hang out
- Intimate encounters
- Short term
- Long term
- Other….
Then I had to come up with a headline and then a description
As well as a first date scenario
Upload a photo
And I was good to go.
It did not take long for the responses to start.
My first contact was from a nice man a town away.
This service offers an instant messaging feature. Which this fellow used to contact me.
Well he was very pleasant to chat too and seems nice, but his has CP and is disabled and very large, and wears a heavy beard.
There was very little we had in common really.
The next was a man close to my age. That lives about an hour away from me.
He also sent me an instant message and we exchanger messenger information and chatted on there.
He is a programmer from Europe. His English is not fabulous, and I thought his short answers and rare questions were due to that, but know I don’t think so. I think perhaps there is something wrong with him. He sent me a picture. It is at a distance and you can’t see his face well in it.
Our communication was fairly basic.
He has contacted me a few times since and I have been somewhat put off by him.
He seems to have an attachment to me already that goes beyond our casual connection.
He talked of kissing.
He also when contacting me wants to meet me then and there.
Ummm… no.
He is a stranger and I am not going to drop my life in a second to run out and meet a stranger.
Here is a tidbit of last night
rob- Any plan tonight me- Not too much, just catching up on things
rob- I think to go gym now for one hour or would you like meet?
me- Tell me Rob - what do you see happening when we meet?
Rob- Takin wine, maybe kisses
Me- Oh I see
Me- You seem to imply a very sexual relationship
Me- And frankly you are still very much a stranger to me.
Rob- Im nice guy who love cuddle
Me- Okay
Me- I like cuddling and kissing and the works but I don’t hook up with a stranger
Me- That is not me at all
Rob- Me too
Rob- It’s all up too you if u trust me we could meet if not it’s ok
Oh then there was this message : ever do it on a office desk?
I was just going to ignore that completely but could not resist a short reply : That was a strange first contact to send.
Which he replied : ya…I guess I should work on it… how about the hood of a car!?
Ready - Set - Date
Hello out there. Recently I decided to begin a new adventure.
My Goal
I want the WOW guy who feels I am his WOW gal.
‘Wow, I am so lucky to have this person in my life.’
I have a good life, but I don’t want to be alone anymore.
Of course I think I am unique. It is not an ego thing; I am just me and know what I want.
I have decided I am going to date and see if I can find him, or if he finds me. A friend of mine suggested I write about the experience.
I thought why not? I enjoy writing, and this might make for an entertaining read.
I suppose an introduction is in order.
- I am Harmony
- I am tall,
- Blonde,
- Pretty fit but not a workout junkie,
- I am into healthy living but not obsessed by it.
- Once married and divorced for several years now.
- I have one great child,
- A dog,
- A house in a good neighborhood in a nice city.
- I earn a decent living
I invite you along to follow what I find and what happens.
I will be posting about the men I meet and how it goes.
I signed up to an online dating site one week ago and much has happened in that first week.
I will have to play catch up over the next little while to fill you in on what has already gone on.
That’s it for tonight… I have a date.