date30.com

• Do you want children?
• You are a (male/female) seeking a (male/female)
• Do you have children?
• Height
• Body type
• Do you smoke?
• Do you drink?
• Do you use drugs?
• Hair color
• Interests
• Religion
• I am looking for _____________________

This one was interesting you could chose from…

• Friends
• Online friends
• Dating
• Hang out
• Intimate encounters
• Short term
• Long term
• Other….

Then I had to come up with a headline and then a description

As well as a first date scenario

Upload a photo

And I was good to go.

It did not take long for the responses to start.

My first contact was from a nice man a town away.

This service offers an instant messaging feature. Which this fellow used to contact me.

Well he was very pleasant to chat too and seems nice, but his has CP and is disabled and very large, and wears a heavy beard.

There was very little we had in common really.

The next was a man close to my age. That lives about an hour away from me.

He also sent me an instant message and we exchanger messenger information and chatted on there.

He is a programmer from Europe. His English is not fabulous, and I thought his short answers and rare questions were due to that, but know I don’t think so. I think perhaps there is something wrong with him. He sent me a picture. It is at a distance and you can’t see his face well in it.

Our communication was fairly basic.

He has contacted me a few times since and I have been somewhat put off by him.

He seems to have an attachment to me already that goes beyond our casual connection.

He talked of kissing.

He also when contacting me wants to meet me then and there.

Ummm… no.

He is a stranger and I am not going to drop my life in a second to run out and meet a stranger.

Here is a tidbit of last night

rob- Any plan tonight me- Not too much, just catching up on things
rob- I think to go gym now for one hour or would you like meet?
me- Tell me Rob - what do you see happening when we meet?
Rob- Takin wine, maybe kisses
Me- Oh I see
Me- You seem to imply a very sexual relationship
Me- And frankly you are still very much a stranger to me.
Rob- Im nice guy who love cuddle
Me- Okay
Me- I like cuddling and kissing and the works but I don’t hook up with a stranger
Me- That is not me at all
Rob- Me too
Rob- It’s all up too you if u trust me we could meet if not it’s ok

Oh then there was this message : ever do it on a office desk?

I was just going to ignore that completely but could not resist a short reply : That was a strange first contact to send.

Which he replied : ya…I guess I should work on it… how about the hood of a car!?